Up early, packed and ready for another busy day! We met our guide at 9:00 am and load all of
our stuff into the van. Later today we
take the train to Guangzhou so we have to check out of our hotel. It’s been nice to have 2 or 3 nights in the
same location.
As we get into the van our guide informs us that we have
some time to kill before going to the orphanage, they want us to come at 10:00
instead. So, I ask if we can return to
Natalee’s finding location and the original orphanage as I want to take a few
more pictures. After taking several more
pics and talking to 2 curious men in the hallway we head on over to the orphanage. These men were probably the 3rd or
4th people to ask about our girls and comment that Natalee looks
like a local girl.
The Loudi Social Welfare Institute is a rather large square
building with a center courtyard and open-air hallways. It houses about 65 elderly on the first 3
floors and the orphanage is on the 4th floor which is responsible
for about 50 kids. Director Li who was
there when we adopted Natalee is no longer here and the nanny that brought her
to us recently moved away. The new
director escorted us upstairs where we passed several offices and into a
meeting room. The room was lined with
large arm chairs on both walls and a coffee table filled with fruit in the
middle. The director served us each a
bottled water and huge slice of watermelon.
One of the nannies that has been with LSWI for many years remembered
Natalee and came in to talk to us. They brought out Natalee’s file but it didn’t
contain too much that we didn’t have. I
glanced through it but didn’t get too much time with it.
The nanny told us she remembered the day Natalee
arrived. She was about 2-3 weeks old and
it was cold. The gate guard found her
because a small firecracker was left near her and set to go off, thus alerting the
guard that there was a baby. The nanny
said she was small and delicate and developed a cold. We gave the nanny the
photo book we made of Natalee and she loved looking at it. A few other ladies came around and looked too,
asking a few questions and smiling at the pictures.
After a while they took us on a tour of the orphanage. The top floor is painted a light blue with
some bright pictures, it appeared clean and well kept. The first room we went in was a commons room
and had about 10 severely disabled children sitting around “watching” TV. Megan went right in and started handing out
lollipops and helping some of the kids unwrap them. It was a little overwhelming for Natalee
though. It was hard! One young girl, maybe 13, had been badly
burned and sat quietly in the corner observing us. She had such deep sadness in her eyes and
when we spoke to her, she lit up. Oh,
Lord, bless these children with your love! It was really hard to walk away.
They took us to a couple of their living quarters which had
8 to 10 bunks in a room, all very neatly kept.
There was an adjacent play room, bathroom and kitchenette area. We saw
another 15 or so kids, again all with severe needs. The kids with “minor” needs or considered “healthy”
are with foster families. The last room
they brought us to was the art room.
Brightly painted and decorated and well stocked with art supplies, the
one wall was full of handmade projects done by the kids in the orphanage. They make things and then sell them to
visitor and other local people. We took
a few minutes to shop and the Director offered Natalee one as a gift and
offered Megan some handmade hairbows as a gift.
We head back to our meeting room
to gather our things and head to lunch.
Lunch is quite fancy at a nearby hotel. The table is set formally with crystal
charger plates and all. Natalee comments
on how hard it is to have come from the orphanage with kids who have nothing to
this extravagant luncheon that seems excessive.
Lunch was really good with a few dishes we had not yet tried, one was
beef with peppers and onions similar to fajitas. Megan ate a lot to the
surprise of the other ladies. It was a
bit awkward at times not knowing what to talk about and because all of the
orphanage ladies (3 of them) were on their cell phones. As the meal ended we were very pleased that
the ladies asked for to-go containers and bags and took all of the leftover
food. So glad at least one of our meals
didn’t go to waste! As we said our
goodbyes we realize we have about an hour or so before we need to head to the
train station.
Our driver takes us to a different park, but it has lots of
stairs. We’re not moving too quickly
today and enjoy a leisurely walk up to the top of the park which overlooks the
city of Loudi. We take several pictures,
including one with our driver who seemed to really enjoy being with us the past
few days.
At the train station our driver doesn’t just drop us off but
instead grabs some of our luggage and helps us get inside. Our guide will be on this train too as it
heads first to Changsha where she lives.
We learn more information about traveling by train – when the name is
red you are waiting. When the words turn
yellow it means get ready and green means you can pass through the gate. Wish
we had known that earlier. The country
side is beautiful as we pass through!
We head northeast to Changsha, drop off & pick up
passengers and then head back in the same direction we came from. Suddenly Kyle & I realize the # of the
train route has changed. Uh-oh, did we
have to change trains? Did we miss
something? I’m able to track our
location and direction on the mapsme A.P.P (they say each letter not app) and
we are going in the right direction toward Guangzhou, so we’ll wait it
out. Sure caused me panic though! Oh, when we changed direction back in
Changsha the other passengers around us got up and started to switch the
direction of their seats too so we followed suit. There’s a foot lever that you press and then
swing the whole bank of chairs (2 or 3 together) around to face 180˚ to face the opposite
direction, it was pretty cool.
We made it to Guangzhou, found our guide and driver and head
to Shamain Island and the Victory Hotel.
We check in and get our meeting time for tomorrow. In the lobby we met a lady from Illinois who
was here with 3 of her daughters on a heritage trip and then she was adopting a
10 year old and 14 year old girls too.
She told us that they became the 16th & 17th
members of her children of which 13 of them are adopted from China! Whoa!! She also told us about one of her
daughters that is from Loudi as well and was adopted at age 12, she found her
birth family on this trip (the orphanage staff had told us about her too). Our guide couldn’t believe this lady and her
huge family, she was quite shocked.
Once we settled into our rooms, which are adjoining, and tip
the bellboy, we decide to walk around the island to see what shops are still
around. Due to international adoptions
changing, the island shops have gone through change too. It’s now more of a “resort” for the Chinese
with high end clothing shops and restaurants.
We see a few stores that hopefully will be open in the morning. After stopping by 7-11 to get some noodles we
head back to our room. We’re able to
call home again (I think we called home 4 times which was nice.) Our journey is coming to an end. It’s hard to believe all that we’ve done, the
places we’ve seen and the memories we’ve made.
Our minds are a bit overloaded and hopefully in the coming days we can remember
it all.